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Thursday, July 13, 2006
Using common sense on the Internet
Hey, it's about time! MySpace owners News Corp. have launched a campaign to help parents understand how to keep their kids safe online. Their website, Common Sense: Internet Safety Survival Guide, explains the online world to parents and others who don't yet comprehend MySpace, YouTube, blogs, iTunes, etc.
Yes, this is run by the company that owns MySpace, so you've got to take that into account, but it still looks to me like a potentially handy resource for parents tired of the one-note media fearmongering. It would be great if an objective third party would step up and create and promote such a functional site, but if a better one than this exists, I don't know about it.
Here's an example of the "Common Sense Tips" from the site's page on Online Social Networking:
- No social networking for kids in middle school or younger.
- Balance your teen's need for privacy and self-expression with concerns about safety and responsibility. Forbidding social networking sites probably won't work for kids in high school, so focus your energies on appropriate postings and safety information.
- Create safe privacy settings. Make sure they're set for “friends only.”
- Tell kids to think about their photos and entries before they’re posted. Since anything can be downloaded and forwarded, ask your kids if they want the world to see what they post. Remind them that future colleges or potential employers could be checking them out.
- Make sure they avoid all personal identifiers and avoid postings about parties, events, or activities where a stranger could find them.
- Don't let kids meet strangers.
There's plenty more, along with descriptions of how sites work, and how parents can snoop on their kids if they choose to. I haven't dissected it all yet, but on first glance, I'd say it looks useful.
July 13, 2006 at 09:33 AM in Media/Keeping an eye on the competition | Permalink
Comments
I have three teenagers and I will tell you right up front that I have monitoring software on my computer. I have a friend who lost a son to some unfortunate circumstances and that friend told me that you have to do whatever you have to do to make sure no harm comes to your kids. I make no apologies for doing this. I see plenty of things I don't like and just have to let it roll off. I'm more concerned with stuff that can be life threatening.
Posted by: Greg Henry | Jul 13, 2006 10:41:22 PM
Amen, Cathy. I watched my friend's kid sister come of age way before she probably should have (very sensitive kid). Computers and IM is probably to blame for at least half of the drama. Granted she'll survive, but between preteens getting sexually involved and spilling all the details online, concerned parents lurking around on their kids' blogs to try and glean info, plus all the pervs out there... it's just better off to save the internet stuff until they're old enough to drive. Kids are supposed to be learning, doing their homework and engaging in mostly good, clean, wholesome fun with the occasional rebellious behavior tossed in.
I logged onto AOL for the first time in 1996 and back then it was a fun new place for smart, computer-savvy people to meet and chat. Left aol, went back after 3 years away and those chatrooms had turned into pervert central. I think I stepped into a Town Hall or something and within 20 seconds I had 10 porn mails. So it was GOODBYE AOL and I will never go back!
I can't believe how many parents have NO idea what their kids are exposed to on the internet. So anyway, I agree with you on the common sense thing.
(Just one childless woman's opinion)
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Posted by: Dina Giolitto | Jul 15, 2006 2:57:33 PM
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