Dating Tip

When meeting and chatting with someone you'd potentially like to date, I strongly advise not saying, "So, why are you single?"

Is that supposed to be a compliment, like,  "You're so good looking, smart and awesome, how come someone hasn't snatched you up yet?"

Because, really, it just sounds like, "So, what's wrong with you?"

How does one answer that question? Should I give a laundry list of all my bad habits and neurosis? Or perhaps just lay down the truth: "Actually, I've been having too much fun fucking around with people I barely know to settle down."

Jeez.

xoxo,
MM