One and Done?

Dear Mistress Maeve,

I'm curious about men and multiple orgasms. When I go down on my boyfriend and he gets off, sometimes I like to keep going to see if I can make him come again, but he tells me to stop because it feels like he has to pee. One time I pushed it, and yep, he peed!
Is it possible for him to have multiple orgasms? If so, how do I achieve this? Help, please!

Signed,
Anonymous

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Dear Anonymous,

Kudos to you for exploring the male multiple orgasm, but you're going about it the wrong way. Contrary to popular belief, male orgasm and ejaculation are two separate events. Even the most advanced male lovers generally cannot ejaculate two times in a row without a recovery period in between. If you want your man to experience a plethora of peaks, he will need to learn to keep from spilling his seed and, instead, to enjoy the physiological and spiritual benefits of the non-ejaculatory orgasm.

Just as women do Kegel exercises to strengthen their pelvic floor muscles, men must develop their PC muscles to experience multiple orgasms. Preparing for multiples entails lots of practice with getting to the "point of no return," then using the PC muscles to stop the flow of semen. Eventually, your guy could learn how to suppress ejaculation and enjoy the other benefits of loads of orgasms (pun intended). For more info and tips, check out this link.

And one more bit of advice: If you're not into water sports, stop fellating your boyfriend when he tells you he has to pee.

Multitasking,
MM

PS... If you have experience with the elusive male multiple, please share in the comments section. You can comment anonymously, just make up a name and skip the rest.